IN A RELATIONSHIP: However harsh this sounds and no matter how great and beautiful it was. It's over. And though you think you can do something about that, you can't. The problem with relationships is that you have not one but two lives you become responsible for and maybe you couldn't do that. Or they couldn't do it. No matter what it is. It's important to forgive and forget because carrying a grudge isn't going to make you a better person. So instead of giving out negative vibes and obsessing over what could have been- MOVE ON. Stop throwing yourself a pity party all day and night. If the idea of being alone scares you then you have a problem and you most definitely don't deserve a relationship, Unless you're okay being alone you can never be okay with somebody else. I don't want to know what happened because shit happens and that's how life works. Now, its your time to reinvent and recreate yourself, there's always room for improvement