FIND YOUR BIRIYANI

IN A RELATIONSHIP:

However harsh this sounds and no matter how great and beautiful it was. It's over. And though you think you can do something about that, you can't. The problem with relationships is that you have not one but two lives you become responsible for and maybe you couldn't do that. Or they couldn't do it. No matter what it is. It's important to forgive and forget because carrying a grudge isn't going to make you a better person. So instead of giving out negative vibes and obsessing over what could have been- MOVE ON. Stop throwing yourself a pity party all day and night. If the idea of being alone scares you then you have a problem and you most definitely don't deserve a relationship, Unless you're okay being alone you can never be okay with somebody else. I don't want to know what happened because shit happens and that's how life works. Now, its your time to reinvent and recreate yourself, there's always room for improvement and all relationships throw light on flaws. 7 Billion people in this world and you're the only you and the person you were with was only 1 out of 7 Billion. So calm down.

Someone once told me: "Of course you don't think you're ever gonna find better. That's because when you've been eating khichdi your whole life you think that's as good as it gets. Until one day, you find Biriyani and your whole perspective changes. Wait for that person who turns out to be the Biriyani in a world full of Khichdi."

You're not everyone's cup of tea and they are not your Biriyani. And that's okay.

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NOTE:

It's definitely been a while. At one point I almost forgot this blog even existed and I'm pretty sure most of you did too. Exams got the best of us but they're finally over. And it's summer. Dreadful. Because I hate summer- So much time and so much to do that I end up doing absolutely nothing. 

Going through this blog now, it kinda has a central theme and idea: Sadness?...Heartbreak?...My-life-sucks-vibes? (a lot of it)

So that has to change. This blog has always been a place to vent and make something better out of random thoughts and feelings. And that worked and it helped but I think it needs more now. Hence the theme change- brighter colours brighter thoughts and brighter ideas.

Constructive criticism is welcomed.